1. ONE OF YOUR SCARS, HOW DID YOU GET IT?
When I was in 8th grade, I got knocked down while playing football, and my glasses cut into my face, and there's a very faint scar left, probably only noticable to me and my optometrist.
2. WHAT IS ON THE WALLS IN YOUR ROOM?
A poster of mathematicians given to me by a friend; a mizrach sign on the east wall (for prayer purposes); two sheets of paper with a list of books checked out with the ones that have been returned colored over.
3. DO YOU SNORE, GRIND YOUR TEETH, OR TALK IN YOUR SLEEP?
Occasionally, no, and occasionally.
4. WHAT TYPE OF MUSIC DO YOU LISTEN TO?
I collect songs about medical and other silly stuff. I watch asl music videos on youtube. I tend to listen to country on the radio. I love Jewish music concerts, the kind with dancing, and I listen to various types of Jewish music on the computer. Really, I'll listen to most anything that doesn't offend me.
5. DO YOU KNOW WHAT TIME YOU WERE BORN?
Motzei shabbes. My mother went into labor with me Friday morning, and I was born around 10:30 PM on Saturday.
6. WHAT DO YOU WANT MORE THAN ANYTHING RIGHT NOW?
To quote from the very maudlin song, "A Mother's Dream,":
When people ask me what I wish for, I find it hard to say.
There are so many things I dream of, hope for, on any given day.
Right now my dreams include finding/creating a family for myself, performing well as a student teacher, finding a fulfilling and well paying job, and resolving my health issues.
7. WHAT DO YOU MISS?
Personal.
8. WHAT IS YOUR MOST PRIZED POSSESSION(S)?
This computer, my blankie, my library card, my digital camera.
9. HOW TALL ARE YOU?
Five feet with my shoes on.
10. DO YOU GET CLAUSTROPHOBIC?
Very occasionally, especially in crowds.
11. DO YOU GET SCARED IN THE DARK?
Sometimes after a nightmare.
12. THE LAST PERSON TO MAKE YOU CRY?
Me.
13. WHAT'S YOUR WORST FEAR?
Too personal to share.
14. WHAT KIND OF HAIR/EYE COLOR DO YOU LIKE ON THE OPPOSITE SEX
Impartial.
15. WHERE CAN YOU SEE YOURSELF PROPOSING?
It's got to be in person. Other than that... on the bus, on the train (it'd have to be a relatively quiet train though), at the beach maybe. Yeah, beach sounds about right. Honestly, I'm not too worried about this one.
16. COFFEE OR ENERGY DRINK?
No.
17. FAVORITE PIZZA TOPPING?
Olives.
18. IF YOU COULD EAT ANYTHING RIGHT NOW, WHAT WOULD IT BE?
I'm full, thanks.
19. FAVORITE COLOR OF ALL TIME?
Neon yellow, light blue.
20. HAVE YOU EVER EATEN A GOLDFISH?
Nope.
21. WHAT WAS THE FIRST MEANINGFUL GIFT YOU'VE EVER RECEIVED?
I should remember that?! Maybe parents.
22. DO YOU HAVE A CRUSH?
Not unless I use a really low threshhold for crush.
23. ARE YOU DOUBLE JOINTED?
Nope.
24. FAVORITE CLOTHING BRAND?
Nope.
30. SAY A NUMBER FROM ONE TO A HUNDRED:
A number from one to a hundred.
31. BLONDES OR BRUNETTES?
I never even notice, except when people have really white hair. I kind of like dyed hair on other people (with colors like blue and green and purple), but I'm not really particular.
32. FAVORITE QUOTE?
Besser a yid mitun a bord vi a bord mitun a yid.
Literally, better a Jew without a beard than a beard without a Jew.
Figuratively, better to be a good person without the outer signs than to have the trappings but not the inner goodness.
33. FAVORITE PLACE?
Libraries. Yes, I do love libraries.
34. HAVE YOU BEEN OUT OF THE USA?
Yes, I've lived in Israel. I've also been in the Czech Republic and England for a week each.
35. YOUR WEAKNESSES?
Fear, stubbornness.
36. MET ANYONE FAMOUS?
By my standards, yes. I've met a number of politicians including US and State congressmen, alderman, etc.. I've met some activists famous within their respective movements. I used to have a professor who was also had a news spot on national television twice per week.
37. FIRST JOB?
Babysitter. First job with a W-2, either math tutor or assistant weaver, I don't remember. They were at the same time.
38. EVER DONE A PRANK CALL?
No, that's mean.
39. DO YOU THINK EVERYONE OUT THERE HAS A SOULMATE?
No.
42. WHAT DO YOU GET COMPLIMENTED ABOUT MOST?
My intelligence, my kindness, and my beard, in that order.
43. HAVE YOU EVER HAD BRACES?
Nope.
44. WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR YOUR BIRTHDAY?
Pizza, slippers, sloganed hats (or regular kipot), a CGMS (I can dream, right?), dunno. I'm going to be 21!
45. HOW MANY KIDS DO YOU WANT AND THEIR NAMES?
I'm going to adopt. There are three issues in how many kids, and they are: wanting to avoid a mix of kids that don't get along well, wanting to have enough energy and support for kids. So how many depends on which kids, how my health holds up, and what kind of support I get from a partner and/or friends.
46. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE?
Yes, my parents named me after a friend of my mother's who was terminally ill at the time because she had a dream that the friend would live if I was named after the friend. However, I changed my name as soon as I was legally able. The friend, btw, is still alive.
47. WHAT IS THE BIGGEST TURN OFF OF THE OPPOSITE SEX?
Assuming that this really means, what one thing would make me say no to a prospective partner, the answer is smoking. One, that's disgusting, and two, I want somebody who respects their own health and that of those around them.
48. WHAT IS ONE THING YOU LIKED ABOUT HIGH SCHOOL?
My teachers.
49. WHAT KIND OF SHAMPOO DO YOU USE?
Whatever's in the bathroom (parents buy it).
50. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING?
When my hands aren't shaking, yes.
51. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT?
Nonexistant.
52. ANY BAD HABITS?
Yep. I'm always losing stuff!
53. ARE YOU A JEALOUS PERSON
No, absolutely not.
54. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON, WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU?
Maybe.
56. DO LOOKS MATTER?
Like, to me personally or in the general scheme of things? I mean, I guess so. I'm less influenced by a person's appearance than the average person, and I have a hard time paying attention to my own appearance.
57. HOW DO YOU RELEASE ANGER?
To be honest, I haven't had a whole lot of anger since I went on testosterone. It kind of cured the really intense anger. Milder anger... well, I tend to rant to people and online. Sometimes I rant loudly.
58.WOULD YOU RATHER GAIN 58 POUNDS OR LOSE 58 POUNDS.
Gain. Losing 58 pounds would make me dead. Gaining 58 pounds would make me just barely obese.
59. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE BAND?
I don't really have one.
60. WHAT WAS YOUR FAVORITE TOY AS A CHILD?
Pen and paper. Um, no... lego?
61. HOW MANY NUMBERS ARE IN YOUR CELL PHONE?
I don't have a cell phone.
62.WERE YOU A FAN OF BARNEY AS A LITTLE KID?
Yes, I even got to go to a Barney conference once!
63. DO YOU USE SARCASM?
Not very often, but sometimes.
64. MASHED POTATOES OR MACARONI AND CHEESE?
Mashed potatoes. I'm a vegan.
65. WHAT DO YOU LOOK FOR IN A GIRL/GUY?
Well, I haven't actually been on any dates yet. But so far, I am looking for somebody who:
MUST
want to coparent
likes me (at any level)
lives in the midwest
would probably make a good parent (very subjective, I know)
I like
queer friendly and disability friendly
PREFERABLY
my age (roughly)
vaguely religiously compatible
shared sense of humor
queer and disabled
66. WHAT ARE YOUR NICKNAMES?
Hmmm...... well, I used to go by Jockey. I've been called Jocko. I use a variety of handles online.
67. FAVORITE SUPER POWER?
Invisibility.
68. WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE TV SHOW?
Does not exist. I don't watch TV.
69.WHAT'S THE BEST WAY TO DEAL WITH YOUR ENEMIES?
Befriend them or avoid them.
70. WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM FLAVOR?
Mint.
71. DO YOU HAVE ALL YOUR FINGERS AND TOES?
Thank God.
72. DO YOU HAVE A COMPUTER IN YOUR ROOM?
Yes.
73. PLANS FOR TONIGHT?
None.
74. WHERE DO YOU WANT TO LIVE WHEN YOU ARE OLDER?
Midwest city, must have health facilities + public transportation.
75. DO YOU WANT EVERYONE TO ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS?
Nope.
76. WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO?
The hum of this computer.
77. LAST THING YOU DRANK?
I was slurping my oatmeal this morning, does that count? I probably drank water yesterday- but it might have been herbal tea.
78. LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE?
My father.
79. THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE IN THE OPPOSITE SEX?
Once again assuming that opposite sex means prospective partner, I think posture.
80. WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO IN YOUR SPARE TIME?
Make lists, read pubmed.
81. FAVORITE THING TO HATE?
Erm... curebieism?
82. FAVORITE SEASON OF THE YEAR?
Winter.
83. WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE TYPE OF CANDY?
Soft mints.
84. HAVE YOU EVER REALLY AND TRULY HAD A BEST FRIEND?
Yes. In kindergarden. His name was Aaron Bradley Chandler Dexter Martin. He was an only child. I haven't seen him in over a decade.
85. WHAT IS YOUR HAIR COLOR?
Brown. Plus I have some white and red and blonde and black hairs (especially in my beard). But mostly brown.
86. EYE COLOR?
Light brown, only my state ID says Hazel.
87. SHOE SIZE?
Children's 4.
88. FAVORITE FAST FOOD PLACE?
No.
89. FAVORITE RESTURANT?
Not really.
90. DO YOU LIKE SUSHI?
Am a vegan.
91. WATCH TV TODAY?
No.
92. FAVORITE DAY OF THE YEAR?
Purim? Simchas torah? Simchas Torah.
93. PLAY ANY MUSICAL INSTRUMENTS?
Badly.
94. REPUBLICAN OR DEMOCRAT?
I've voted both. I tend to lean to whichever is not in office.
95. KISSES OR HUGS?
Hugs. Kisses are just icky.
96. RELATIONSHIPS OR ONE NIGHT STANDS?
Relationships.
97. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU BOUGHT?
Streetwise.
98. WOULD YOU EVER BE A HOUSEWIFE?
Househusband, you mean? Well, I probably wouldn't be the best one, on account of being a natural slob, but maybe. I can imagine working part time and/or from home in order to be able to raise children better and/or better manage my diseases.
99. WHAT BOOK ARE YOU READING?
I just read the excellent book One Big Happy Family, edited by Rebecca Walker, and I'm also reading Measle and the Dragodon by Ian Oglivy.
100. DESCRIBE YOUR LOVE LIFE:
You mean, like, romance? I've occasionally liked somebody an extra lot, though generally people who are totally inappropriate (ie married women three times my age). There's a person (my age and good sense of humor) whose profile I saw on an asexuals' dating site that looks promising and I asked her out (at least, I think I did) but I haven't gotten a reply yet. Still hoping.